I don’t know if I’m good at giving advice on relationships, but you all will admit that it is essential and necessary you support your partner. When I mean support, it’s not just helping financially, certainly not just showing emotion, saying I LOVE YOU or not just sex but helping them to achieve their goals.
The biggest impact you can do in your partner’s life is assisting them to accomplish their goal in life. They can never ever forget you. If you’re in a relationship, engaged or married, at some point you get to hear your partner talking about what they aspire to become. During such conversations, be attentive and you will notice the joy in their faces as they talk to you. That goes to show, the level of happiness and satisfaction it will bring to them if they are able to achieve their goals.
The next question is, do you know what your partner’s aspirations are? If you don’t know, then ask your partner but if you do know, the next step is supporting.
Love is a complex word that I can’t even explain. Personally, love is in everything we do. It’s not just about emotions but also in helping, supporting and given words of encouragement. Don’t be that partner, who is self-absorbed in attaining their future goals and forgetting to support. Help them to achieve theirs too. No matter how little, it’s important they know you equally want the best for them.
In lots of relationships, one person is always supportive of the other but doesn’t get it back. In all honesty, it can never be 50-50 but at least try to reciprocate. Are you the type that is constantly getting support from your partner and you don’t do the same? You may want to have a rethink because I can guarantee and assure you that after a while, your partner gradually starts getting angry, jealous, despises, and becomes resentful towards you when they see how happy and successful you’ve become and unfortunately, it’s not the same for them. Make the bold step now and learn to support each other.
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